May , is " Special " for Qing and I !

One can hardly believe , it's been almost three years already .. that we are married . Funny , about half of that .. she's been in America . It is not hard to look back for both of us , to Nov. 2007 .. our first Contact through Chnlove.com .

Many People at work or at get-together' , are always asking me .. how we are doing ? Are you getting along ? Does she like it here ? Of course there is always the "One" , thinking she left already and only came for the Green Card to America . Well , the last one to ask that Stupid question .. is a " FOOL " .

I'm not shaken by that , no way ! If these People only were 50% as happy as we are , they would be satisfied and happy themselves .

I will not go into too much details , but I can assure anyone .. Qing and I have something " Very " special . That we cherish to the fullest each day , without a doubt .

Anyway , this Post is to remember our first Face to Face meeting ( May 7th ) and two days later .. our Marriage at the Registry ( May 9th ) to receive our " Red Books " .. Chinese proof of Marriage . Now May 9th , was suppose to be our first meeting .. but thanks to Singapore Airlines .. those plans flew out the window so to speak . At that time , I was very upset of the unexpected Travel changes that I had to re-shuffle . I was to fly into Singapore for two days , go to Kualar Lumpur and back to Singapore . From there to Shanghai on the 9th . It turns out , that this change was all planned by somebody " Above "

See , if the first plans were to come true .. our Marriage would NOT have been on the 9th . Which has a great meaning to Me . After all , the very reason .. I was flying to Shanghai in the first place .. was really for my late Wife and mine Anniversary (30 yrs.) . This would have been on the 6th of May . Now , I could not repeat my LaoPo's and My on that same day . So by pure Coincidence ( which I by the way don't believe in ) or Luck or whatever one wants to believe , it happens that it was on the 9th . Well , isn't the number " 6 " the only number you can turn around and make a " New " number out of it ? Here we have it , May 9th and May 6th will always be very special to Me .

The reason , I don't believe in Coincidences .. is really due to many reasons I've experienced in my Life . One that stands out here the most .. is , my 39 year old Bank Card has the same Pin Code ( given by the Bank no less ) as this Date/Anni combined . So somebody knew well before , that this will be of much significance to ME someday .

So May "Flower's" will always bring a Heart-warming time to Qing/Myself and a time to be thankful to the "One" that really brought us together .

Time and the Age's have shown , Flower's and Bee's live always in Harmony !!!