More of the wonderful time spend with my Qing .

What can I say other then ... what a lovely time I get to spend with my LaoPo . If it's after my workday or on the weekends . As this Journey started more than two years ago , we or should I say ... I find myself somewhat in a dream world . How it is possible for two People from opposite worlds / cultures can meet over a Computer screen and fall in Love the way Qing and myself did , really is an amazing thing . Anybody in their right Mind , would not even give this a thought .. much less a try even . But , seeing ... someone who does not DARE to try something new , will not gain certain stuff in Life . That is of course something we both had to do , with the unknown staring us in the Face and the disapproval of Family member's and Friends alike . So .. two point's one must overcome here , one being .. do it and the other .. don't listen to other's sometimes .

Now , about the weekend that just passed .
After getting up early and doing some Yardwork ( first of the new year ) , we both went to have Breakfast and then .. it was off to Downtown Los Angeles . I wanted to take Qing to the Imax Theather for a couple of Films , show her the old Coluseum Stadium and get a climps of the Museum's down here .. that we are planning on Visiting in the near Future . This was a wonderful of a Day , as I could have imagined it would be . It was topped off with a great Dinner of BBQ'd Babyback Rib's . Having a lovely .. daily companion like my Wife , it's heaven on Earth . I only wonder .. if she also feels that way about me ? Ohhh ... I think she does .

The awaited Weekend .

As we are waiting anxiously of what the outcome will be ... if my Sweetheart in Pragnent or not , both of us were eagerly going to the Pharmacy for a Test kit . To put a " YES " or a " NO " to our curiosity .
It happened to show " Negative " on the Test , which was of course disappointed to say the least . But , it made us talk and think all of this having a Baby at our age and how things are with the Economy nowaday's . To this point we really were trying to have a little precious Baby ( boy or girl ) , now .. we dicided to just let it take it's own course ... like if it happens great ... if not , that's ok too .
One thing I must add , I really thank and love my LaoPo .. for wanting to give me my first Child .. which really saddened her because of the outcome of the Test . She ask me , if I still " LOVE " her ... well this of course goes without saying .
I love her even more now !!!

Ohhh ... could it be ?

Yes ... I ask myself this question ? Qing of cause does the same . That question came about last night before going to sleep . Qing said to me in her ever so loving voice , I might be in trouble ? In trouble ... I thought ? So slowly it came to the surface , what she meant by this . Every month she checks her Temperature daily and keeps a Log , of how it goes up and down . Well , now she tells me that her Temp . has been pretty much the same for some ten day's now on the high side . What does that mean ? We both know very well what's behind this ... if it keeps up for say thirteen or fourteen day's . Now , the only thing missing is ... that her monthly cycle stops and bingo . She would be pregnant . This of course is not being in trouble at all ( well with the way the Economy is going ) , but would be wonderful either way . But .. I don't want to jump to conclusions just yet . We will know by this Weekend .. I suppose ?

Driving with Miss Daisy ... oh Qing .. I mean !

So , want to update how the Driving and some of the other thing's are going so far .

On a not so bright side , Qing's ESL classes are giving her two weeks off . Not because it's going to be St. Patricks Day soon ( funny .. I chose green today ) , but because the State is out of Money and can not pay their Teacher's for a full year . It's sad , as this Class is a big success , as their are always full with People eager to learn the English language . But it is out of our control and we must live with that for now .

Now , back to Qing's driving progress . As we received a tip on where and what street's the DMV uses for it's driving test , we of course went there and are practising ... to make Qing feel as relaxed and not be too nervous as possible when the time for the actual Test comes . Her driving has improved and made advances just as I have hoped she would . Yesterday ( last night ) I took her to down a Country Road about 15 miles from our home and the way back , I guided her into a Freeway
on- ramp . She of course did not realize , she was on the Freeway .. till I told her to speed up to at least 55 -60 mph . This was as expected a shock , being on the first Freeway drive and at night too . I chose the night time , because much less traffic at that time . Did not want her to go into " FULL "Panic after all . So we cruised back for about 12 miles before getting off .. back into normal traffic . I try'd my hardest to convince Qing , while on the Freeway ... how much easier it really is , not having to worry about all the light's - stop signs and cross traffic all the time . But , she is not very comfortable at higher speed's . Something I saw already in China at a Amusement Park , like the wilder rides .

That brings me back to Sunday's fun filled day at the Family Fun Center . It was Race day again , doing the Go-Kart thing over . This had a really funny start . As the Operator explained the Rules of the Course , Qing just took off ... as she was in the first Car on the Track ... before the Guy gave the signal to go . I guess she wanted a pretty good ' HEADSTART " from the Field . Can I blame her for that ? So it turns out she got overtaken twice anyway . Hahaha .
After that , we went on to Miniture-Golf . This was Qing's first time and I tell you .. after a couple of Holes , she was right up to Par with me .
To continue this fun filled day , we drove to the " Happy Market " for some Food shopping , which Qing alway's enjoy's . She loves that Market , one can see it in her Eyes ! Or maybe it's Love instead ??? as I am right there next to her .. like a shadow .

Well .. done it again , another Poem .

I been working on this new one for a few day's now and just finished it this morning .

A Singing Flower !

Listen ... listen , one can hear ...
far in the Distance ,
a Song in the Wind .

Listen ... listen , coming like a gentle ...
Breeze towards your Ear .

Feelings ... feelings , are spreading
throughout the Air
giving one a chill to know
something is near .

Listen ... listen , as the Breeze comes closer ..
a Song will follow
it's from my lovely Flower
coming over me like a shower .

A Singing Flower ...
is showing her Love
through a Song to my Ear

Feeling ... feeling ,
that she is indeed very near .

I also will give this to my Brother in-law's Son , that writes Music and see if he can put this into a Song also .