May 06 '09 , would have been the 31st. Anniversary .

This day was very special for me , my late wife Nancy , but also for my Tai Tai . After work today , the first thing on my way home , I stopped by Nancy's grave . Not only to commemorate which would have been our 31th Anniversary , but also to pay my respect to her . From May 06 1978 to her passing away , every year we toast with a bottle of Asti Spumanti . Actually , this photo was taken last year , a day before departing on my way to Shanghai , to meet my Sweetheart for the very first time . So , I had a couple of glasses of this bottle and poured a couple into the ground for my Nancy . This is an old Mexican tradition , that I picked up some years ago , from seeing it at other gravesites being done this way .

This is a special day not just because of this , it also is the very reason I was going on a Trip anywhere in the world , to be in the Air all of that day , to be as close as I can get to my Nancy . The 12 Girls Band than showed me , where to go , Shanghai it was to be . By June , I had ticket's to go to Shanghai . On Oct. 09 '07 , I got to see the Girls live at the Anaheim Grove . Like a Dream . By Nov. 27 I received the first letter from my Qing and than of course our first time waiting , for May to arrive has begun .

This is why , it is also very special for Qing and Myself , this date . Now Qing and I married by Registry on May 09 '08 , also just take the number 6 and turn it over and it becomes a 9 . Yes , the only number you can do that to . This is why I truly believe my late wife is in on this , me finding Qing and marrying her by Fate on our 30th Anni . with the number turned around , so not to be the same date . Add the Crystal Cube to that and what can I say ? Was that meant to be or not ?

Well , this Saturday is Qing's and My first Anniversary coming up and of course it has to be a Full Moon , to really make it special for us . Hey , I can't help it , when things just fall our way , with so many things . We both know , this is Fate having a hand in it , not just coincidence or luck . If you ask me now , when is Qing's interview date , I would not be surprised if that date would fall on August 07th this year , so we can celebrate on the 08-08-09 our first Anni. of the Wedding Ceremony , her getting the Visa approofed .

Anyhow , this was the day , last year , that was not only going to be our first meeting , but also a Dream come true . Standing under the Oriental Pearl Tower with my Sweetheart , my favorite Lady , my favorite landmark , my favorite City , I'd say ... I am a happy Fellow , to receive all this on my very first Trip to China .

Haha , to think of it , our Love is as big as Qing's purse in the Photo and as pure as the Color of it .