Well , like you see here ," LOVE NEVER FAILS "
that is true only , if two People share what they call TRUE LOVE . Love also can turn easy into hatred , when mis- used or simply neglected and not cherished to it's fullest . So , why is there such a thin line between the two . Does anybody really know , the answer to this question ? I myself would think , it's the lose of someone , that you cared for and Loved , like nobody you ever loved in this Life . So this lose will turn into a emotion that is exactly the opposite ( hatred ) . Just like when one looses a Loved one due to a Death , and this will turn you to mourning instead of hatred . Oh , but even then , you will go through a period of anger but don't really know who to blame for it , unless it was due to a crime of course .
LOVE ... can also be put into four category's ;
JOY---WISDOM---HOPE---COURAGE .
JOY : This is what you will experience from day one , after meeting your Girlfriend / Soul-mate for the first time and realizing this is going to go far into a relationship . Doing all kind's of active thing's together , if it's just talking , going out to have fun or eating at your favorite Restaurant , going to see a Movie , play some kind of Sport you both are good at , or not that good at it , as long you are together and if it's fun , that is all that matter's anyway . Just staying home and cuddle up to one another , and if their are Children , to enjoy them is as they grow brings a lot of Joy to a couple ( most of the time , hehe ) .
There is just no end , of all the Joy a loving couple can have on any given day or evening .
WISDOM : Being smart , having much knowledge of Life in general , even having a sixth sence , and of course common sence . This Wisdom , grow's as one get's older and wiser , with each one of us induvidual's growing at a different pace , like everything else , that has of some kind of value in Life . This Wisdom , can be shared in between two Lover's , to improof each other's Wisdom and so forth . This also include's , languages of different kind's , history and culture's and sharing the other's up bringing and life value's . This is a very important part of any relationship , because this is where the many / most difference's of each Person are , so very important to share those as early as possible in a relationship . This is very true , especially if one thinks , their Wisdom or Knowledge is better then the other's . This is where most of the time , the age difference between two , that is TOO large ( either way ) comes into play and can cause a lot of trouble , that might not be managable from either party . So sharing and respecting the other is the key to a successful Marriage .
HOPE : This also could be called WISHING . This is what Soul-mate's / Married couple's , share pretty much on an equal bases through the entire relationship . Hoping to stay healthy to a long and old age , having the necessity's in Life , to live comfortable and respectable Life style together as a loving Family and being good Friend's and Neighbor's to many and the community which they live in . This also is where Dream's can be put , as those are Hope's as well . Either one , should never loose out on Hope and Dream's , that is when Life will stand still from there on .
COURAGE : This is something at least one of the Couple should possess , at all times . This is what makes all this possible , as to find what one is looking for in a Soul-mate , Wife / Husband , without it it is almost impossible to meet anybody of the opposite Sex . After having Courage to find the True Love , it is just on to the next step , finding , getting , making , having , believing , what ever LIfe throw's our way , may it be good or bad , it takes COURAGE , HOPE , WISDOM , JOY and of course a lot of LOVE to make it all work .
So , what does this all tell you ? Find your LOVE first and you will have all the other four with no problem . " TRUE LOVE " that is .
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