While waiting ... time seems to stand still !

But yet , why does it also seems to move very fast , as Qing and I are approaching our one year Anniversary soon . It must be all a Mind game , that is play'd on us , how else would you explain this tuck of Time in two directions ? Maybe it's between being " Happy " and being " Sad " ? Anyhow , with our Anniversary being on the 09th of May , it is hard to think that , out of those 365 day's , we only got to spend about 33 day's being together as Husband and Wife . Looking at it this way , of course could make one feel depressed , but why do we both not feel this way ? Well , I think there is no need to answer this question , it's obvious .





Qing and I , were / are , alway's together anyway ! It might only be in Heart or in Mind , but together never the less !!!





So , we don't look at it like you would think , and this is what makes our Love stronger . Of course celebrating one year as a Married couple , is special any way you look at it , it's a very loving and happy as can be Marriage , for what the circumstance's are in our Life's . It all comes down to how wonderful it will be , ones we are united and living together , with many happy year's to look forward to .

How much more beautiful can Life really be , being together having Tea on a Boat and have the Lady rowing sing wonderful chinese love story song's to you ? I'd say , at that moment in Old Shanghai and on the waterway's , with your beautiful Lao Po , is there anything more heart-warming than this ?
This only being one , of so many great time's we actually got to spend together so far . Unforgetable moment's that will never fade out of ones memory , at least not if I can help it .
One thing , in this Picture , does bother me somewhat ! What is it ?
It's Me , being one inch ( 2.5 cm ) taller than Qing , but it does not show ? Because , as in many Photo's , I seem to slouch and I do have to remember to sit up straight . This alway's has been a problem of mine . Need to have Qing , tab me in the back , if she see's me doing it . I don't like bad posture in my Wife and Family's , so why would I like it not to be the same for me also ?
That is one bad habit that I do have , and I am thankful not to have too many other ones . But then , Qing might find some other ones I have and did not know about ?
This is a very important issue , in a marriage , that needs to be brought up on the surface and discussed , to not let it become bigger then it has to be . So far , I can not say , I have noticed any bad habit's on my Lao Po . But time will tell ? Everybody has some , one or the other , somewhere stacked away , til being noticed by the other Spouse . I really look foreward to see if my little ( Tall ) Flower has any of them ? I can't be the only one ? Hehehe .